“Stuff your eyes with wonder, live as if you’d drop dead in ten seconds. See the world. It’s more fantastic than any dream made or paid for in factories.” – Ray Bradbury
I was lucky. Having experienced my first trip as early as the fourth year of my life. This was the first trip of my life – a spiritual tour in Uttarakhand. And thanks to my parents and grandparents to have organized this wonderful spiritual tour in Uttarakhand that gave me the first awesome travel experience. So much so that I have been bitten by the travel bug since then. It was a wonderful family trip. Even while I was so small at the time of this first trip, there are scenes from the trip, clearly imprinted in my mind, forever. Truly, travel touches everyone deeply. And the first trip is always so special.
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This is how we started on the spiritual tour in Uttarakhand
Both my maternal and paternal grandfathers had retired a couple of years back. And they were willing to celebrate it with a grand trip. This was to be a trip to the pilgrimage places of Uttarakhand, high up in the Himalayas. And that’s why I have called it “spiritual tour in Uttarakhand”. It included halts at destinations like Gorakhpur, Dev Prayag, Rudra Prayag, Gangotri, Yamunotri, Badrinath, Kedarnath, Rishikesh and Haridwar.
Although I don’t remember the exact sequence of events and destinations that we took, I do remember a lot of stuff. They must have made a deep mark on my baby brain. So, coming back to the point, my grandparents materialized my first trip. And it included a whole bunch of relatives – maternal and paternal uncles and aunts, parents, grandparents. Amongst them all, I was the only child, apart from my 10 months old cousin. So, definitely I got a lot of attention through the first trip of my life.
The start of the spiritual tour in Uttarakhand
Drama before the departure
As was planned, we all gathered at my maternal grandparent’s home because it was a stone’s throw away from the railway station. And almost half an hour before the arrival of the train at the platform, we started to gather our bags and head off to the station. But alas, grandma had lost the keys to the house somewhere during her frantic packing! (Alas! the current day travel packing tricks didn’t exist back then) Everyone was alerted to look for the keys. As the clock was ticking, everyone was getting tense about missing the train. I could as well feel the tension. After all, it was my first trip and also my first train journey experience and I didn’t want to miss it at any cost. (Later I came to know my grandma was famed to miss her keys at the last moment!!)
Finally we started unpacking the luggage and there the key was, inside one of the beddings that she had just finished rolling in the last moment. After a round of passing on the blame from one person to another for the loss of the key, everyone stepped out for the railway station. The train was just starting to leave the platform when we arrived. The ladies and the kid (myself) was pushed up the train and then the luggages came next. I almost panicked seeing my father and uncles running on the platform, parallel to the train, ensuring all luggage was on-boarded, before they boarded the train themselves. I had almost believed they were going to miss.
Finally, on-boarded
Finally, we all boarded and settled in our seats. I liked the rhythmic journey of the train. And I liked hopping from one compartment to the other conveniently as almost half the coach was occupied by our extended family only. Somewhere in the middle of the night, we finally reached the first destination of my first trip – Gorakhpur.
Gorakhpur
The first stop on our spiritual tour in Uttarakhand ! Gorakhpur ! It was then a small town. It is located on the banks of Rapti river. And it is a part of the state of Uttar Pradesh in India. The city is home to the famous Gorakhnath temple. Two things I remember precisely from our short overnight stay at Gorakhpur –
- We took almost 20 rickshaws to commute from the railway station to the dharmshala of Gorakhnath temple. It was like a chain of Rickshaws parading through the middle of the night.
- In the temple there is a massive clock. It strikes (or rather bangs) loudly every hour to mark the time. I couldn’t sleep peacefully almost all through the night because of the sound and the change of place. I remember that sound clearly even today.
Gangotri
From Gorakhpur, at some point, we traveled to Gangotri. Can’t say for sure if it was our second or which stop on our spiritual tour in Uttarakhand. Maybe we halted on the way at couple of places, I don’t remember that clearly. Gangotri is a town in the Uttarkashi district in the state of Uttarakhand (then Uttar Pradesh). It is a hindu pilgrimage that lies on the bank of holy river Bhagirathi. The holy river Ganga is believed to originate from the foothills of Himalayas at Gangotri. The water here is extremely cold.
The one scene that I remember is when everyone was getting ready to take a dip into the holy water, braving through the cold. The part of body which went inside the water immediately got numb due to the cold. My maternal grandfather went in to take a dip. However, upon coming out he realized his false tooth were washed away in the river. A never to be beaten spirit that he was, he said merrily – “Chalo arpit kar dia Ganga me” (meaning, let it go, I presented it to the river).
Yamunotri
Yamunotri is yet another Hindu pilgrimage town, located in Garhwal in the upper Himalayas. It is the source of origin of holy river Yamuna .. the tributary of Ganga. When we visited Yamunotri years back, the roads were not tarred and the path used to pass through dense forest. There were no fencing, no proper roads, no mobile networks, no means of taking a vehicle up the mountain. And it was a steep climb of 13 kilometers. A few incidences that I remember from the Yamunotri trip are
Incidences close to heart
- Along the way, upon getting tired, some of us opened a pack of biscuit and sat below a tree to eat it. Suddenly, a wild dog appeared. Then another, and yet another. Soon we were surrounded by packs of wild dogs who wanted all our food supply. We, all ladies, and a child (of course myself) were deeply horrified. That is when a local appeared from somewhere, to our rescue. He told us to start shouting loudly, anything. That finally scared the dogs off.
- Everyone had got extremely tired in the last stretch of the trek. So, we decided to hire mules and horses for rest of the journey. However, it was difficult to tame these animals, for inexperienced people like us, across the mountain terrain. They often used to run here and there. I was so horrified sitting on the back of one of these creatures, along with my mom. So, I made all possible excuses that someone will get me down, but alas, no one did. At the same time, my aunt seemed to have got lucky with her extremely friendly mule named ” Basanti” who gave her a pleasant ride through the trip
- Upon reaching Yamunotri, we slept in a dormitory. I woke up multiple times at the night due to thirst. But I couldn’t sip more than a single sip of water, it was so bitterly cold. Next day morning, as we got down into the courtyard to get some water, there was none. Because the water had frozen into the pipes!!
Badrinath
Badrinath is a holy town in the chamoli district of Uttarakhand. It is one among the four important pilgrimage of Hindu in India, the Char Dham. Badrinath was established as a main pilgrimage by Adi Shankaracharya. We visited here as well as a part of our spiritual tour in Uttarakhand. However, it was a quiet and smoothly sailing trip.
Kedarnath
Next, we headed to Kedarnath. Kedarnath is a holy town in the Rudraprayag district of Uttarakhand. It gets it’s name from the Kedarnath Temple. It is located at the head of the river Mandakini and is flanted by snow covered peaks.
However, after an exhausting experience of the Yamunotri trek, some of us decided to stay back while others headed to Kedarnath. Among the one who stayed were my uncle and aunt who had to take care of my 10 months old cousin, and needed a break. My paternal grandpa who was exhausted, and myself who was terrified. Although I totally enjoyed my stay with grandpa whereas my parents went ahead to visit Kedarnath. There was a small shop at the first level of our homestay. I made grandpa buy me chocolates from there all the days that we spent there. And he complied thinking he had to keep me happy since my parents were not around. (Children are so smart , so was I 😉 )
Haridwar
Next we headed to Haridwar. It is a holy district in Uttarakkhand where the river Ganga leaves the mountains and enters the planes for the first time. The force of the river is incredible at this place. Haridwar is regarded as one of the holiest places for hindus. The famous Kumbh Mela is celebrated here every 12 years. Har ki Pauri (Literally meaning footsteps of God) is one of the most famous Ghats in Haridwar.
I guess for some reason, of all the places that I visited in this trip, Haridwar remained closest to my child heart for some reason. Basically it is my favorite amongst the places visited on this spiritual tour in Uttarakhand. Here are the things and incidences that I recall from this place, which left a mark somewhere.
Incidences from Haridwar
- Our dharmlsala (resort) , Jaipuriya , was located right on the banks of the river Ganga. A provision was made on the back side of the hotel for people to take dip in the holy water and take bath. Myself, too afraid of getting into the water, used to sit on the bank and take a bath while all my relatives and parent went inside the water. Everyone tried to first encourage and then ridicule me in order to provoke me to get into water , but to no avail.
- The food that was prepared in the restaurant was first offered to God and then all the guests were invited to eat. I was very hungry one day. So my mom went to the kitchen with me to enquire about the food timing. The priest replied “Although the food has not been offered to God, but a child is a form of God himself. So, we must not make her wait for food”. Though I was too small to understand the depth of his words, his kindness and wisdom did touch me.
- I loved the narrow lanes of Haridwar , the evening that we spent at Har Ki Pauri floating diyas in the holy water, the small stuff that we bought and once in a while when I sat with my mom and aunts on the bank of the river, dipping my legs in the water.
Rishikesh
Yet another holy district in the foothills of Himalayas, Rishikesh was our next stop on this spiritual tour in Uttarakhand. All I remember from this place is the calmness of the same river Ganga which was so forceful in Haridwar. The river spreads it’s banks in Rishikesh so much so that standing on one side, you can’t see the other. The place was very offbeat and un commercialized when we visited. And one of my fondest memories is a walk across the Lakshman Jhoola ( A hanging bridge). I was thrilled to walk on a bridge that swayed.
Some interesting random memories from our spiritual tour in Uttarakhand
Although the rest of the memories are quiet hazy, there are some funny things that I remember from here and there along the trip:
- Perhaps at some point we had taken a group tour in a bus that took us from one destination to another. Although half of the bus was always occupied by our family only. Two of my aunts used to get travel sick badly. They used to sit on the back seat and throw up all the time, still they used to be in high spirits through the trip.
- The roads that cut across the mountains were so narrow. Two vehicles couldn’t cross at once. One had to stop to let the other pass. And the one that stopped was always on the valley side, with one tire almost into the slope of the mountain. My grandpa, terrified, used to chant every time our bus would halt like this.
- We used to sing and play song sequences through our bus ride.
- When we used to sleep in dormitories during this trip, I enjoyed a lot, sometimes sleeping besides one aunt, and sometimes another. Making everyone narrate a different story to me.
- We did use makeshift toilets, drink from broken water pipes and trek through some of the wildest path in this journey. And I still enjoyed.
- I felt astonished that they had a different cuisine and I didn’t get to eat the same stuff that I used to eat at home.
In conclusion to the spiritual tour in Uttarakhand
The first journey of my life was the wildest, weirdest, longest and the best. I had the thrill of not knowing where we were headed next. And I had a joy of traveling with the whole extended family. It was a trip of a lifetime, nothing like this will ever happen again for me. I am glad it was my first trip. Since, it gave me so much of exposure to travel at such an early stage of life. I strongly feel my first trip had a great significance in arousing the wanderlust in me.
A reflection at present day
It’s amusing how our travel style evolved in different phases of life since then. Now I am in the boots of my parents, doing meticulous planning before each trip as I travel to places far and wide with my kids. My 5 years old kid has already been to Hampi (at age 8 months!), Mysore, Kodaikanal, Shimla & Manali, Mahabalipuram, Jaipur, Udaipur, Jodhpur & Jaisalmer in Rajasthan, Coorg, Chikmagaluru, Wayanad, Yercaud, Kabini, Kolar, Hoysala, B R Hills, Palampur, Meghalaya, Singapore, Goa, an epic 2 weeks Europe trip covering Rome, Florence, Pisa, Venice & Murano in Italy, followed by Lucerne, Bern, Grindelwald, Interlaken, Mount Titlis in Switzerland, then Paris & Amsterdam, including Disneyland & Keukenhof Tulip Gardens, Indore & Mandu, Kumarakom, Andaman Islands, a 2 weeks trip to Thailand, Gandikota, Ooty. And the list is growing. I can see she carries the love for travel just as I do!! And I guess it’s because she started traveling at a very early age.
So, what was the first trip of your life? I will love to hear…tell us via the comment box…
Now, you know where the journey started. Read the story behind our travel stories to know more about the twists and turns that life has taken since!
PS: Sorry for the hazy pictures. I restored them from way too old prints.
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Wow, what an amazing trip to go on for your first one ever! And how great to have so many memories of it! I’m not surprised you got bitten with the travel bug!
ha ha.. thanks Emma. I do admit this trip had a lasting influence and greatly inspired my wanderlust in the subsequent years
I cant even recollect what my first trip in my life was. You are so lucky to have such lovely photos from your trip. Such a cute story and beautiful pictures 🙂
Thank you so much. As you don’t remember about your first trip, I presume you started traveling at a quiet young age 🙂
It must have been really nostalgic as you delved down the memory lane to bring alive these priceless moments. I guess travel is all about living and reliving those special moments.
Exactly. It was so very nostalgic. And then as I pen down each travel memory, and every time I myself read it, it is like time traveling again 🙂
I am happy for you Neha. You’d always have something utterly wonderful to look back when conversation stirs to “first travel experiences”. Mine was with my family, in the northern part of the Philippines. It was a fond memory but not anything grand. I would love to have a “grand” first trip though with my 5 year old son.
Absolutely Kopikang. Do plan that trip. It will be the special first trip for your son and I am sure he will always remember it fondly.
Such an interesting read! Thank you for sharing 🙂
You are truly blessed to have experienced traveling a lot at an early age. That is what I want for my children too. I want to be able to give them the gift of travel. I didn’t travel a lot when I was younger and I regret it!
I truly was blessed, now that I think of it, I more and more realize it. You surely are doing the right thing planning travel for your children. The memories that they will form as a part of it, they will cheer those memories forever
What a great first grand travel experience. I also enjoy looking back at pictures and recalling past travel experiences. My favorite are always the ones where are a lot of family members were able to come together and travel together.
I can totally relate 🙂
Wow, you have an amazing memory to remember & write about your first ever trip! That’s incredible! It must be so nostalgic for you to look back on the photos too & now you have them preserved online 🙂
Absolutely. It is so nostalgic. I love looking at these snaps. Things have changed so much, but that feeling will never die…the excitement of that first trip is still live inside me
Wow Neha! Such an interesting read. I really like how you have made a post out of your travel memories from the past. The places look so stunning even in the hazy pictures. How long has it been since you took this trip?
Thanks Sindhu. No matter how many trips I take, this one will remain the dearest to my heart. So, I had got to share it with you all. I guess it was 22-25 years back that I took this trip.
The first trip is always among the most memorable. And what a beautiful place to do your first trip! Glad you averted a drama that almost scuppered it before you started it (as they say, a bad travel experience usually makes for a good travel story later on!), and that not even makeshift toilets and the like didn’t put you off!
Absolutely Joe. I consider myself lucky to have this beautiful first trip experience. And to have the snaps from that trip as well. This just proves children are so excited about travel
Wow! you remember a lot. 🙂 Something similar to pack of dogs crowding around you all to have biscuits had happened to us while traveling to LePakshi here. I can imagine the scare.
Oh is it.. I thought it could happen only in the jungles!! 🙂
We still look at our old albums and reminiscence about the time. Those times are always cherished and are close to our hearts. A great travel story indeed. Lucky that you have these memories. Cheers.
Thank you. Really, the first travel is always so special
I love Travellers, and its really good to know you had a good time. Thanks for sharing
This is beautiful. It reminds me of the first trip I did with my family when I was a child and I can barely remember anything but it made a big impact on me. The photos are beautiful also. I love how you can almost see the era they are from just by the film. These are amazing memories to have!
Can absolutely relate. This was an era and the only way to connect back to it is through these lovely snaps and the somewhat faded memories that we have
Nice. I also love travelling to new places but have not been opportuned to due to school issues. Hopefully i will pack my bags in few months time to sojourn to my home town
Beautiful memories!! You always remember your first trip!! Its a unique experience .. Thanks for sharing this post with us 🙂
Exactly. You always fondly remember that first trip
It’s wonderful that you have these memories to cherish. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you. These memories are so close to heart
Hi Neha,
This is a special one — made me think of my first trip, wow!
I will now go back and try to find old pictures!!
The photographs are lovely, those you shared. And the quality translates the sentiment of nostalgia, drama, crazy times (love the wild dog story!) and typical family fun.
Thank you for sharing!
A big thank you Celma…I can see you totally have my feelings. I myself have read the post God knows how many times, since I wrote it. Like no other post of my own. I wish you all the best finding your old snaps
That’s really cool that you have the photographs from that trip. I sadly do not have any photos from my first trip and don’t remember it too well.
That’s really sad. It’s such a great feeling to look at those old snaps and cherish your first trip. I guess the snaps help in recreating the memories
Hey Neha! Such a beautiful travel story you have shared here, while we were reading this it brought back memories of our travels when we were kids! With all the twists and turns, you had a fun trip which you remember till date, that’s so sweet:)
Thank you so much. The first trip is somehow always a very special one..isn’t it? And the one we take as kids is even more enjoying. Because all we have to do is enjoy and live in the moment without worrying about the travel arrangements 🙂